Friday, July 8, 2011

My List of Online Resources about Porn, Sex, Masturbation and the Bible

Generic Info on masturbation:
      Pro or neutral, from Christian sources:

http://www.healthystrokes.com/

http://site.themarriagebed.com/sexuality/masturbation-overview/masturbation-q-aamp-a

http://www.loveallpeople.org/pearl-masturbation.html (Bill McGinnis)

http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/sexuality/healthy_childhood_sexual_development/prevention.aspx (Childhood development masturbation normal)

http://web.archive.org/web/20041211043903/www.focusonyourchild.com/develop/art1/A0000553.html (Old Dobson article)

http://www.ecclesia.org/truth/women_sin.html Matt.5:28 and premarital sex in depth

http://www.bibleissues.org/lust1.html

http://www.godrules.net/articles/mat5.htm

http://replay.web.archive.org/20100103103522/http://layhands.com/IsMasturbationASin.htm

http://christiansandsolosex.com/

http://reformedanswers.org/answer.asp/file/40098

http://boysunderattack.com/masturbation.html

http://lavistachurchofchrist.org/answersTopicM.htm#Masturbation

http://www.tbm.org/masturbation.htm   (Tom Brown ministry)

http://www.religioustolerance.org/masturba8.htm

http://www.healthystrokes.com/christian.html

http://www.urbana.org//complete-book-of-everyday-christianity/masturbation

http://www.atruechurch.info/masturbation.html

http://www.monergism.com/directory/link_category/Sin--Temptation/Topical-Categories/Lust/Sex-A-12Step-Program-for-Men
A collection of articles

Church Father on Matt. 5:28  http://www.godrules.net/library/ecf/anf02.iv.ii.iii.xiii.htm

http://jmm.aaa.net.au/articles/4884.htm Argues both sides

http://www.acts17-11.com/dialogs_masturbation.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Religious_views_on_masturbation#Protestantism


Christian websites, but more emphasis on topic:

http://christianmasturbation.homestead.com/

http://inkaboutit.homestead.com/highlight2.html

Quotes many sources and has letters.

My own testimony of getting free from porn and masturbation addiction:  http://ecbblmstr.blogspot.com/2011/02/biblical-view-of-masturbation-how-to.html


Secular websites:

http://www.massgeneral.org/children/adolescenthealth/articles/aa_masturbation.aspx

http://www.mckinley.illinois.edu/handouts/masturbation.html

http://articles.chicagotribune.com/1993-10-24/features/9310240348_1_condoms-breakage-rate-key-words-are-abstinence   Ann Landers recommends masturbation to help protect young people

http://sexuality.about.com/od/masturbation/tp/masturbationmyt.htm

Girls and masturbation:

http://www.healthystrokes.com/youngfem.html

http://truessence.net/

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/is_masturbation_healthy

Boys and masturbation:

http://www.healthystrokes.com/young.html

http://boysunderattack.com/masturbation.html

http://lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVanswers/2008/08-18e.html

Ejaculation/Elimination necessary:

http://www.answer-health.com/qs/Men/150292.html

http://lavistachurchofchrist.org/LVanswers/2009/10-05a.html

http://www.prostate-massage-and-health.com/Mastrubation.html

http://site.themarriagebed.com/physiology-of-the-male-sex-drive

http://en.allexperts.com/q/Urology-Male-issues-989/Prostatitis-5.htm

Why do people masturbate?

http://mwillett.org/mind/masturbate.htm

History of masturbation, similar articles:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/resources/research-papers/masturbation-stigma-sexual-health-26785.htm

Also see the "Answers.com" or the "Wikipedia" article, much the same
info

http://www.healthyplace.com/sex/women/sex-matters-for-women-faq/menu-id-66/page-2/

Benefits of orgasm and masturbation:

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/is_masturbation_healthy

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,401722,00.html

http://www.womentowomen.com/sexualityandfertility/healthbenefitsofmasturbation.aspx

http://christianmasturbation.homestead.com/MasturbationAdvantagesEllis14.html

http://www.davidjayjordan.com/MasturbationandGoodHealth.html

http://www.myfemalesexuality.com/self/MedicalMasturbationChapter1.htm

http://ezinearticles.com/?Does-Masturbation-Improve-Prostate-Health?&id=1350640


Christian Middle of the road:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdGrb_tZjd8&feature=related

focus on family help for teens (wishy washy) http://family.custhelp.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/25807

http://www.truthortradition.com/modules.php?name=News&file=article&sid=149#null

http://www.apocalipsis.org/masturbation.htm


Anti-masturbation sites and How to stop masturbation
(supposedly)

http://newlifehabits.com/2007/08/08/how-to-stop-masturbation-addiction/

http://www.bible.com/bibleanswers_result.php?id=252

http://addiction.lovetoknow.com/wiki/Masturbation_Addiction

http://theresurgence.com/2008/09/28/porn-again-christian-a-free-e-book

The Church's sex teaching. http://www.cybercollege.com/history.htm

http://www.urbana.org//next-steps/ask-jack/answers/2006-4-2-mike?Category=Guidance

100 days goals http://npsupport.net/community/viewtopic.php?f=2&t=72&st=0&sk=t&sd=a


What about porn ?

http://theresurgence.com/books/porn_again_christian   Pastor Mark Driscoll's booklet
 
http://www.eroticliberty.com/article1.htm    (This site has a porn section)

http://www.ecclesia.org/truth/women_sin_whore.html (married and unmarried whores) 

http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001804.cfm    Albert Mohler on the harm of porn

porn stats:

http://www.blazinggrace.org/cms/bg/pornstats

http://www.safefamilies.org/sfStats.php

http://www.xxxchurch.com/gethelp/stats.html

http://www.internet-filter-review.toptenreviews.com/internet-pornography-statistics.html

History of Porn: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ws8ODCLEKU&feature=related

Underlying causes of Porn Addiction:

http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/scotland/article1292103.ece Brody, sex missionary"
Brody article http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16095799?dopt=Abstract (The .pdf is available somewhere)

http://www.reuniting.info/science/articles/prolactin_levels_higher_after_intercourse_than_masturbation

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d8F9acHsyJk Dr. Doug Weiss on the chemicals of porn addiction
♦♦ http://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series ♦♦


Overcoming porn addiction:

http://www.innergold.com/pptVideo.cfm

http://www.netnanny.com/blog/entry/id/50 candeo brain chemistry male female

http://www.contentwatch.com/learn_center/article/140 Pornographers target the male brain. and female too

http://candeohealthysexuality.com/why-candeo/#candeo-tabs=0

http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/2010/11/recovery-course.html

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/cupids-poisoned-arrow/201004/has-evolution-trained-our-brains-gorge-food-and-sex

ADHD and porn addiction http://www.pornnation.org/2010/08/10/adhd-and-sexual-addiction-what-you-dont-know-can-hurt-you/

http://www.wikihow.com/Avoid-Pornography

http://www.no-porn.com/

http://www.wikihow.com/Overcome-an-Addiction-to-Porn-As-a-Teenager

http://www.georgeverwer.com/ip.php?tp=wretch

http://www.challies.com/christian-living/sexual-detox-the-e-book

http://www.happinessonline.org/BeFaithfulToYourSexualPartner/p9.htm do you lust in your heart article
BUY: E-Book and 12 CD's http://www.kickporn.com/

Anti-porn sites:


http://www.antipornography.org/home.html

http://hcdocu.blogspot.com/
Documentary about hardcore porn (might be R rated )


http://oneangrygirl.net/antiporn.html
NOTE:  I don't agree with the views and opinions of many of the sites listed. My views are summarized in the link I provided above.

Porn Recovery sites:

http://www.xxxchurch.com

http://thepornevent.com/nextstep/

http://porntopurity.com/

http://www.sexualrecovery.com/pornography-addiction.php

http://www.purelifeministries.org/

http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com/courses/way-of-purity/

http://www.esexaddict.com

http://www.healingforthesoul.org/index.asp

http://www.purityreport.com/news.php

http://www.purityreport.com/forum/index.php

http://candeocan.com/3-keys-mini-course/

http://istopped.wordpress.com/

http://www.x3pure.com/

http://www.freedomeveryday.org/index.php

http://www.sexualrecovery.com/

We are free from the power of sin: http://tinyurl.com/Son-sets-free My
emancipation bulletin


Porn Blocking and Monitoring Software:

http://www.x3watch.com/x3watchfreesoftware

http://itunes.apple.com/app/bsecure-mobile-browser/id329198773?mt=8

http://itunes.apple.com/app/safe-eyes-mobile/id298505665?mt=8

http://itunes.apple.com/us/app/covenant-eyes/id335318146?mt=8

http://inetsafetybubble.com/Default.aspx

http://dailybattle.wordpress.com/2008/08/08/iphone-internet-filter/

http://www.wisechoice.net

http://www.christianpurity.com/mandatory.htm (filter forced)

http://www.filtereddsl.com/

http://www.christianbroadband.com/

http://www.bsecure.com

http://accountable2you.com/

http://www1.k9webprotection.com/

https://onlinefamily.norton.com/familysafety/loginStart.fs

http://www.opendns.com/solutions/household/

http://www.internetsafety.com/safe-eyes-parental-control-software.php

http://www.safefamilies.org/


BOOKS on Sex Addiction Recovery
http://www.amazon.com/Healing-Shame-That-Binds-You/dp/0932194869#_

http://www.amazon.com/Out-Shadows-Understanding-Sexual-Addiction/dp/1568386214/ref=wl_it_dp_o?ie=UTF8&coliid=I1ALJT7UJSSFCI&colid=1R2R3RCIUCL6I

http://www.amazon.com/Wired-Intimacy-Pornography-Hijacks-Brain/dp/0830837000/ref=wl_it_dp_o?ie=UTF8&coliid=I2ZPG8YQWAIW27&colid=1R2R3RCIUCL6I

http://www.amazon.com/Altar-Sexual-Idolatry-Steve-Gallagher/dp/0970220200


Sex questions and the Science of sexuality:

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/FAQ.html (For what its worth)

BOOKS on Sex and masturbation: "A Gift For all Ages: A Family Handbook on
sexuality" "Restoring the Pleasure." Both books are by Clifford & Joyce
Penner

http://sexuality.about.com/

http://www.youramazingbrain.org.uk/lovesex/sciencelove.htm

Victorian prudery recapped by a Christian lady http://patsyraedawson.com/?page_id=904

http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/camp1.html (number 6)

http://www.kyria.com/topics/marriagefamily/marriage/romancesex/3.36.html?start=3 masturbation to teach hubby

http://www.scarleteen.com/article/advice/the_great_no_orgasm_from_intercourse_conundrum

http://www.christiannymphos.org


Women hooked on porn: 
http://www.focusonthefamily.com/parenting/teen_booklets/girls-snared-by-porn-and-cybersex.aspx

http://www.thepinkcross.org/pinkcross-forums/help-porn-addiction/help-female-porn-addiction

http://www.allaboutlove.org/pornography-for-women.htm

http://dirtygirlsministries.com/

(There are many other websites and articles)

Wives of porn addicts:

http://www.wifeboat.com/

http://marriage.about.com/cs/masturbation/f/masturbatfaq1.htm

http://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Woman-His-Dreams-ebook/dp/B002PMVP2I/ref=dp_kinw_strp_1?ie=UTF8&m=AG56TWVU5XWC2

http://books.google.com/books?id=ADd86GYUj3kC&lpg=PP1&dq=Every%20Heart%20Restored%20by%20Fred%20and%20Brenda%20Stoeker&pg=PP1#v=onepage&q=Every%20Heart%20Restored%20by%20Fred%20and%20Brenda%20Stoeker&f=false

http://www.partnersforpurity.com/


http://www.troubledwith.com/AbuseandAddiction/A000000759.cfm?topic=abuse%20and%20addiction%3A%20pornography%20and%20cybersex

http://www.feedtherightwolf.org/2010/04/my-husband-watches-porn-will-he-cheat.html

http://www.x3pure.com/info_for_wives/

http://www.netdoctor.co.uk/ate/sexandrelationships/sex/200494.html

http://www.pornaddicthubby.com/index.html

http://www.secureinheart.com/


Homosexual Recovery:

http://www.narth.com/




http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com/courses/door-of-hope/
http://gaychristian.net/


Thought for the day . . .

               "It's easy to quit smoking. I've done it hundreds of times."
                                                                                                   - Mark Twain



WEBSITES FOR MARRIED COUPLES: (Best defense is a good offense !)
http://www.amazon.com/Restoring-Pleasure-Complete-Step-Step/dp/0849934648

http://www.christiannymphos.org

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips-moves/your-orgasm-guaranteed

http://www.sexinfo101.com/sp_index.shtml

http://www.sex-techniques-and-positions.com/positions1.html    (very graphic)